Off to our adoption paperwork chase we went next... Sailing along had
become too easy. So the snag in the story was about to come.
We were stopped twice by the Yaroslavl police and pulled over. They were
extremely intimidating and loud. Each time the police indicated that our
driver's commercial license did not "look right" to them and no matter what
our driver told them they were not satisfied until $50 (U.S.) was provided them.
Then, miracle of miracles, the license became valid and off we could
go! This did not faze our coordinator and translators. With our
photos in hand, we returned our daughter to the orphanage but hated to let her go;
while at the same time remembering our "heartbreak" or "frost
break" hotel made us glad that the baby would have a warm bed that night.
At this point, we were clearly on emotional overload but so in love
with our "bundle". Next stop, the Court: The judge was an attractive
woman, but stern. There was a prosecutor and education official present who
gave their determination as to our fitness and whether they approved of the placement.
Our translator interpreted for us. After a reading of the case by the
judge, the questions began. My husband received the brunt of the interrogatories
but I was so proud of his heartfelt answers. At the end of the formal
questioning, the judge asked Rich, "why after four children would you adopt
another man's child, when in Russia, many women have problems getting a man to raise
his own child?" Rich explained that he would consider this
child, "his child." The Court then went into recess for the
judge to deliberate. Upon return, the judge ordered that the adoption be
granted and all parties embraced each other with a great happiness and tears flowed
as well. That night back at the hotel, our translator and coordinator,
had champagne delivered to our table to celebrate. Boy, did the somewhat
serious coordinator become a person of fun and colorful stories...it was a night of
exchanges and music. And we were no longer cold to be sure! We
went to bed somewhat tipsy and happy with the knowledge that on the morrow we would
leave for Moscow with our longed for daughter. |